Waiting or Weighting?

Picture of cracked egg shell with black tick marks in groups of five counting the number of times waiting

At a recent event I ran into a woman I hadn’t seen in a long time. I complimented her on how she looked like she’d lost a lot of weight. She shrugged saying she hadn’t changed anything…it just happened.

As we talked she shared that she’d been doing some inner healing work and for the first time in years started fishing and golfing again. Those were the things she used to do with her dad before he passed away. I teased her, ‘…and you said you didn’t do anything different!’

Then I pointed out what she hadn’t noticed…she wasn’t ‘waiting’ any more…and that shift changed her ‘weighting’ issue naturally.

That may sound odd, but from an energetic perspective it makes perfect sense.

Energetic blocks, even when invisible, often show up in the physical body and in our habits.

Weight struggles frequently reflect holding patterns or stuck energy. We avoid things or put them off because we’re waiting…waiting for permission, for the right time or for something outside of ourselves to change.   

I was talking about waiting with my sister and helped clear a few of her blocks. As we finished the call she offered to check my energy field too.

I went for a walk and almost immediately three things came into my awareness where I’d been waiting.  

One of my issues had to do with my husband and I going for a walk together. He likes to walk slower than I, which means I’m usually walking half a block ahead of him. He says he’s okay with that and yet I feel a bit unsettled to think we’re not walking together. I wanted peace of mind when I was walking which meant I needed to heal that inside.

Here’s the key…those three issues only surfaced after some clearing. Before the conversation I hadn’t been consciously aware of them. That’s how energetic blocks work. Once released, things shift and awareness arises which then allows for inner work to continue.  

In my experience when we release blocks of any kind, movement and change naturally follow.

If you’re struggling with a waiting or weighting issue, consider whether something energetic might be at work and whether clearing it could allow you to move forward.

Wherever you are on your journey, may you find your own truth…find what works for you… and you’ll always be guided to feel at peace inside.