Sometimes we get so caught up in figuring out why something happened that we miss what’s being shown to us in the present moment. We don’t always need to know the why…we can become aware of what’s surfacing, work with what’s here, and allow the learning to unfold.
The word “should” can reveal more about our own expectations than we realize, especially when we think we know what's best for someone else. When we become aware of what's happening inside us, we can learn to offer support without measuring someone else's journey against our own expectations.